You don’t take them under consideration, you DEMAND them. My experience has always been setting boundaries but allowing them to be flexible depending on the person. As of late I no longer allow my boundaries to bend. It is a healthy standard for my life and how I aspire for my relationships to flow. By having boundaries, you have now set the precedent...
Too often we express that we are “okay” when the reality is that we are attempting to be okay for those around us or to maintain this image of strength.